Reasons guys are ashamed of being called a virgin

V!rg!n is someone who has never had s3xz before.

While this is a form of pride for every lady. They wants every guy to see them as innocent. It is completely opposite to the male counterparts. As the mere mention of it could cause such an outburst of laughter. You can not expect him to say it again, would you?

Why are men always ashamed of being called a v!rg!n:

1. Belongingness: that feeling that one belongs to a particular group is important to every guy. Infact, need for belonging seems fundamental to every guy. So when you can not measure to their level, you will definitely feel left out.

2. When all your friends have had their share of s3xz experience: you will left out here. They will always discuss how they have cleared two bushes in a week. Then, one of them will look at you and say oboy! How far na? Hope you have started clearing some? you may be forced to say yes because the last thing you want is that their annoying laughter.

3. When even traditionally, it seems like a sign of weakness: It’s not really surprising, to be honest. We fetishise v!rg!n!ty in men. Men are valued for the s3xz they have while women are valued for the s3xz they don’t have. it symbolises purity and innocence. Virginity in men is vilified; being a virgin past a certain point is a sign of flaws and weakness. But losing his v!rgin!ty on the other hand makes you a hero amongst your peers. You can now see why he is ashamed of being called one.

Being a v!rg!n is not a bad thing and the stigma attached to it is from pit of hell. Stop worrying about not having s3xz as there is nothing in the head of a fish if not bone.

Be super contented with being a virgin as you won't need to worry too much about STDs.

Also, if you are Christian, then you will understand the relationship with spirit of God. This is because you are pure before him.