We all want to have that very special relationship where we feel like we are in paradise. We all want our man/woman to be the best if not perfect. But relationship isn't cupcake. That is, it isn't that cheap and easy.
Here are the list of things you shouldn't do to that special one you truly care about.
1) Stop Putting In Effort
Everyone has experience this. But try not to make it affect your relationship. This mostly come as a result of being too familiar to someone.
When you are so close to someone and you feel totally comfortable around such person, you tend to neglect saying things nice to the person, not taking serious or forgetting birthdays, anniversaries, dating plans, special occasions or moments, etc. Believe me, your relationship is 70 percent sure to be ruined by this act.
2) Snooping Around
We all do it. We peak at their phone when it’s left open, we go through a mysterious drawer when they leave the room. But snooping can only lead to problems. Either you’ll get caught, or you’ll find something you don’t want to find.
But one thing will always happen: you will come across something that you don’t understand so you misinterpret it, your imagination runs wild, and it turns into a fight that never should’ve happened.
85% of people especially women who tell their stories concerning this topic ' snooping around in a relationship', tends always end with tragedy.
This signifies lack of trust in a relationship. And to be plain, after love is trust. And without trust, there is no relationship.
To be on a much safer side, you are advised to forget the imaginations or thoughts of snooping around his or her phone if you want that relationship to last.
3) Turning Them Into What They Are Not
Brother, Sister, I don't mean to be rude but either accept them or leave. That’s it.
You should never try to turn someone into what they’re not just to fit the mold of your ideal mate. That doesn’t exist. So you just have to accept them or keep walking.
Your personality can make them improve. It can gradually turn them to be a different person but never set it as a goal you want to achieve.
4) Comparing Them
Are you the type that always compare your ex or someone else to your boyfriend/girlfriend? Believe me if you are, you are on a wrong lane. This act always hurt your lover's emotions.
It makes them feel not up to standard or less important. Some even tend to try living up to the standard of the person you are comparing them to which always turns out bad. At the end, both of you have your share to regret about.
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