One of the sweetest moments of life is falling in love with a man or woman of your dream, Especially when it is true love, and more especially when the lovely relationship ends in marriage. Love experience is special, a point in time when one feels as though he/she is on the top of the world. It is like a dream you wouldn't want to wake up from and most times there will be no more fear of the future because it feels as if love never dies.
But the truth, however, is that love is like a newborn baby. It is very beautiful and/or cute, but like a baby, if you don't nurture it, protect and take very careful care of it, it dies away as if it never existed. This is where so many once sweet couples have found themselves. They continue to wonder what happened, why has he changed so fast and/or so badly. The reason is not far fetched, love has not been nurtured and as a result, is either in comma or is dead. It takes a man (husband) and a woman (wife) to keep love alive and the family going. In this article, however, I want to focus on ladies, like me because we are the power or engine room of the family. We are the source through which love flows both in and out (love from the man to the woman and love from the woman to the man).
Every woman wants a man who will love her so much and do everything she wants. When a woman enters into a marriage agreement with a man, one of her expectations is to be loved so much by the man. Other things are that the man should take good care of her and do everything she wants for her. Every woman wants to be treated like a queen and pampered like an egg. All these dreams are realizable, but the woman has her own role to play and sacrifices to make to realize the dreams.
Ladies you can actually make your husband be that sweet, loving, and caring man you want him to be without needing to meet any "Babalawo" (ritual doctor/herbalist) for charm or love potion. Yes, it is very simple. Among many ways, you can realize this, let me give you the most simple and workable three of them.
1. Submission: Every man has a self-pride in him, and most times, they can't stand anything or woman who wants to ride on this pride. As manly as every man may appear to be, there is this very soft part of them that God has given women, especially wives power to touch. And when this part of man is touched by his wife, and in some cases by any woman, the man will be left with no option than to humble himself before the wife or the woman. One of the ways of touching this soft part is by submitting yourself to him. Let him feel and know he is the man, especially of the house, then he wouldn't mind washing your underwear if that is necessary without you having to use charm on him.
It is said that a man who beat his wife is not a man enough, this is true. In the same way, a woman who raises her voice at her husband, especially outside, is not a woman enough. To this, do your best as a woman not to raise your voice at your husband, especially outside and to the hear of people, especially neighbors. When you don't raise your voice at your husband, rather, you talk to him calmly and use the power of tears instead of the mouth, you will stop him from raising his voice or hands at you. When he sees how the wives of his friends talk to them anyhow and remember he has a wife who doesn't raise her voice at him, he will advise himself and wouldn't want to lose you. And this will make him do everything possible not to lose you.
2. Romantic Sexual Relationship: A wise wife does not deny her husband sex in order to punish him for offending her or refusing to get her demands. Rather she uses sex time as a means of convincing her husband to willingly do those things she wants even when the husband has refused initially. Give your husband the best romantic sex he can get anywhere else so that he wouldn't have any need or a reason to create the need to go out or look outside. Don't ask him if he is a dog, he is not, but your husband. If you wouldn't want him to go outside, become or make yourself enough for him. It is bad to dress in a way to seduce men outside as a woman, but to your husband at home, especially in the bedroom, this rule does not apply. Dress before your husband in a way you will be very attractive to him. Let him desire you and admire your body. Let your appearance before your husband when alone with him keep his mind busy thinking of the quality and attractive beauty of your body. You can stop your husband from thinking about other women with your character, body, and romantic sex.
So many girls have used sex to steal men from their wives, but when you make yourself enough for your husband, every other attempt of any other woman to get at him or steals him from you through sex will only provoke your husband's hatred on the woman, except the man is indeed a dog. With the power of romantic sexual relationships, a woman can get her husband to do anything for her without charm.
3. Take Care of His Stomach: Apart from romantic sex, any woman that controls the stomach of a man can control his pocket, and most times his heart/mind. As a woman, make sure you are in charge of what your husband eats and if possible, what he drinks. Even if you have a chef, let him or her cook the food, but do your best to do the dishing and the serving of your husband's meals. Do your best possible to ensure that your husband does not eat outside. Above others, ensure he does not have a regular restaurant where he eats and drinks. If you can achieve this, you will stop him from so many male and female bad influences that can turn him against you. When you control your husband's stomach, he can do anything you want without second thought.
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