Few days ago, I wrote about 17 things Nigerian men must have to please the women, in their lives. However, the article didn't go well with some readers, as they complained that everything is all about impressing women.
This time around, I've decided to write an update to the earlier write-up, and this one is meant for the female folks. In this article, I discussed few things Nigerian women must have in order to retain the men, in their lives.
They are listed as follows:
1. Total Submission:
The man is always in charge, as much as relationships and marriage is concerned. The man is expected to love and make provisions for the woman, while the lady, on the other hand, is mandated to be submissive to her man. Anything out of submission will make a woman to lose the love his man have for him. So, ladies be submissive to your men.
2. Support:
As a woman, it is required of you to provide support to your man. In this context, support mean you have to be a backbone to his vision and dreams. You must believe in him. Give him a sense of assurance in his endeavours, and you'll have your man for life.
3. Personal Hygiene:
Every lady is expected to be neat. You need to keep a sensible level of personal hygiene. Your hair should be made frequently. Your undies and clothings should be clean. Your fingernails and toes are not left behind, they should be kept for, as well. Being unhygienic makes men to keep distance from you. Beware!
4. Financial Independence:
It's a popular opinion that men are expected to foot the bills, in every relationship and marriage. However, women should not relent in this aspect. You should be an asset to your man, not a liability. Have a channel to generate income for yourself, without depending on the allowance you get from him. Being financially independent increases your self worth. Be valuable!
5. Be Attractive:
You don't have to be a model to look attractive. You should have a cool dressing sense. See, you must be good looking and attractive, as this is one of the reasons why men cheat on ladies. Do everything in your capacity to look attractive. However, moderation shouldn't be left out. Be moderate in all things, your man will appreciate you forever.
Dear ladies, pleasing a man is not as complicated as pleasing you guys. If you can strive to fulfil all the 5 points I mentioned above, you'll never have issues with your boyfriend, fiance, or husband. Be rest assured, no lady can steal your man away.
What other things can you do to retain your man? Guys, what should a woman do to win your hearts?
Please, let's hear your opinions in the comments section.
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