It's a popular opinion that women are weaker creatures than men. I don't know how valid it is, or if it's scientifically proven. However, I'm also in one accord, with that school of thought. That is, I also believe the statement is true.
Someone once said that you can never find a perfect woman, as all women are likened to deities. You just have to choose the one you can worship, and start pouring palm oil on it, for the rest of your life. Wow, it sounds hilarious!
No matter how funny the above statement can be, one thing is certain, you can never satisfy a woman, regardless of the amount of care you show to her. Women are insatiable creatures, but the good news is that, they can be pleased despite their insatiable characteristics.
However, I'll be discussing the basic things that women desire from their men, hubbies and spouses, in 2020. The list isn't far-fetched anyways, if you can give her 75% of the items listed herein, I can assure you of marital bliss in your dealings with your "deity."
The things and features are discussed below, if you can adhere and follow these tips, your woman will love you forever, it's not a promise, it's a fact. The 17 things are listed as follows:
1. Financial Stability:
According to the Christian bible, it was said that "money answereth all things." You don't have to disagree with me on this, as everyone alive in this present generation knows that you can never impress a lady without a considerate level of financial stability. You don't have to become a millionaire or billionaire to make her happy. But, you should be able to pay the basic bills. At least, providing basic needs of survival shouldn't be a problem. If you want to make your woman happy, be financially stable, bro!
2. Emotional Maturity:
No woman prays to end up with a man that is emotionally immature. As a man, you should be able to control your fears, insecurities, pains, and other emotions. Women want someone they can open up their emotions to, therefore, as a man, you should be stable enough to endure the emotional vulnerability of your "deity" if you want marital bliss.
3. Gender Equality:
Although, I'm not a proponent of feminism, I stand and advocate for gender equality in heterosexual relationships. Women wants to be respected and honoured on the same level, as the men. Most ladies won't tell you this, but it's something they wish, hope, and pray for. Give her equal rights and benefits, and your relationship will blossom richly.
4. A Man Of Visions:
One of the things that women desire in a man, is a significant level of vision and ambitions. As a man, if you don't have vision or goals, women will see you as an "NFA" (No Future Ambition). The consequence is that, she might eventually dump you for someone who is more ambitious.
5. Acceptance:
You should be able to accept her the way she is, without bringing down her self-esteem. Women want someone that will love them regardless of their weaknesses and flaws. Bro, nobody is perfect. You should love and capitalize on her strengths. That way, she'll grow to appreciate you more.
6. Romantic Gestures:
It's something that every lady want. Romantic gestures can include kissing on the forehead; tickling her hair; holding hands with her; singing solemn songs to her; reading a book to her; and so on. The list is endless. Good romance ignites a spark within her emotions, making her love and adore you more. Remember, she's a deity that needs to be taken care of.
7. Quality Time:
The list is endless without quality time. You should commit a considerable amount of time to spend with your woman. It's one of the basic things women appreciate from their partners. Spending quality time with your woman boosts the level of chemistry in your love life.
8. Gifts and Presents:
Another important thing you should never neglect is giving gifts and presents to your "deity." Like we know, every traditional worshipper have certain intervals at which they present sacrifices to their respective gods. The same thing applies to your woman, if you don't want to see her wrath, you should present sacrifices to her from time to time. You know what I mean here, right? Don't neglect that aspect, please!
9. Self-confidence:
Most ladies want their men to have a decent level of self-confidence. You don't need to be pompous or arrogant to impress her, but you should be confident in yourself, your career, or whatever you're doing. It brings more respect to you from her.
10. Doing Things For Her:
Another thing to impress your woman is doing things for her. What I mean here is that ladies appreciate those small things you do around the house. Try to help her in some domestic duties. You can offer to do the shopping while she attends to other stuffs. It's a simple method of showing love to a woman. Every woman wants that, definitely.
11. Curiousity:
No need to fret, bro. Being curious here mean you should care enough to be curious about her life, her family, her career, her pursuits. You should ask her about her day, after a day's work. You should be able to ask her questions that make her talk about whatever she's going through. It's sounds so simple, but it mean a great deal to the female folks, don't be found missing here.
12. Words Of Affirmation:
Yes, women love to hear sweet words. That's the way the emotions are wired. You can't afford to be incapable here. One of the ways of winning a woman's heart is by saying sweet things into her heart. Oh my God, she'll adore you forever if you can maximize this feature. Say sweet things to your "deity" more regularly.
13. Protection:
Your woman needs you to protect her. It's more than a desire, it's a necessity to every woman. They need a man that can protect her. You don't have to be a "Commando" in this aspect. But, she needs a sense of assurance that she can look up to you, when she feels threatened or endangered. Protect her, man!
14. Personal Hygiene:
I don't have to tell you this, but it's so important that I just have to say it. Women prefers men that are conscious of their self cleanliness. You have to be neat in your dressing. Your hair should be neatly cut and trimmed. Your fingernails and toenails should be kept clean, as well. Ladies are extra sensitive to these features. Don't be caught unguarded! Be neat, bro!
15. Be Naughty:
Every damn woman wants this from their men. She want to see the beast in you when it comes to the sheets. You shouldn't be gentle here, at all. Your gentleman feature is not needed here, at all. You must make her feel like the goddess she is. Infact, if you want your woman to be happy, do everything to satisfy her on the sheets. Just be naughty for her! Don't be a gentlemen!
16. Be Knowledgeable:
You don't need a university degree to have knowledge. You just need to be aware of things around you. Don't be ignorant, it makes a woman to loose her respect for you, gradually. See, your woman wants to learn new things from you. She won't tell you this, but she definitely wants you to have a general knowledge of things. It's your woman's pride when you make intelligent contributions during public discussions.
17. Be A Man:
You heard that, right? Be a man. She wants you to take responsibility of every decision and action you take. At this stage, you should be able to stand for whatever you want, or believe in. See, if you can't be a man, doing all other things I mentioned earlier will be a colossal waste. She will never appreciate you, if this feature is missing. Don't be a momma's boy if you're married. You should take charge and control of your life. It's what defines you as a man. Please, take note of this.
These 17 points are some of the things women want from their men, in 2020 and the years beyond. See, you can never satisfy a woman. You should always remember that, but if you can do these points I discussed with you, I can assure you that you'll rarely or never have issues with your woman.
I wish you the best in your relationships, engagements and marriages. God bless every good men, out there. Can I hear your Amen?
Do you think these points can really satisfy a woman? What other things do women want from their men, and spouses?
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